I realized that I hadn't shared this with you. Dad's obit was written by my mom and is better than anything I could have done myself.
The funeral was attended by 200+ people, family, friends, former coworkers. The first speaker was state Sen. Jackie Winters, David's old friend, who gave a tremendously warm and personal tribute. When my little sister gave her speech about what her daddy taught her, there was not a dry eye in the house. She talked about how he tried to teach her to play poker. She realized he wasn't teaching her to gamble, rather he was teaching her that there are times that you said what was on your mind, and times you kept your thoughts to yourself, and other wise lessons.
One of the highlights was when my mother got up and introduced a special song. When Dad thought he was dying months ago, he called for mom and wanted to borrow her cell phone. He called his sister and started singing a song and wanted her to help him recall it. It was a song their mother sang to them. Mom took the few words they had and Googled and came up with a hit -- "Will the Angels Let Me Play?" The song was written in 1905. She then told the story about how, when David was a boy, there were few places a little black boy could play. Later on, his high school baseball team won the pennant. The reward was to go to Jantzen beach, a local amusement park. They played on all the equipment and then were going to swim in the pool (Jantzen -- famous for swimwear). They wouldn't allow blacks in the pool. The whole team refused to swim if David couldn't swim. So then, Marilyn Keller, the soloist, sang "when I get to heaven will the Angels let me play/ because I am to little will they think I'm in the way..." . Wow.
We adjorned to mom's house, where there was way too much food and too many people. I am now exhausted and in need of alone time. I smell of about a dozen kinds of perfume from all the hugs I got. I did get to catch up with people I haven't seen in decades.
My part? My mom chose me to chauffeur her to and from the funeral home because she knew I would be calm and collected. I didn't disappoint.
The funeral was attended by 200+ people, family, friends, former coworkers. The first speaker was state Sen. Jackie Winters, David's old friend, who gave a tremendously warm and personal tribute. When my little sister gave her speech about what her daddy taught her, there was not a dry eye in the house. She talked about how he tried to teach her to play poker. She realized he wasn't teaching her to gamble, rather he was teaching her that there are times that you said what was on your mind, and times you kept your thoughts to yourself, and other wise lessons.
One of the highlights was when my mother got up and introduced a special song. When Dad thought he was dying months ago, he called for mom and wanted to borrow her cell phone. He called his sister and started singing a song and wanted her to help him recall it. It was a song their mother sang to them. Mom took the few words they had and Googled and came up with a hit -- "Will the Angels Let Me Play?" The song was written in 1905. She then told the story about how, when David was a boy, there were few places a little black boy could play. Later on, his high school baseball team won the pennant. The reward was to go to Jantzen beach, a local amusement park. They played on all the equipment and then were going to swim in the pool (Jantzen -- famous for swimwear). They wouldn't allow blacks in the pool. The whole team refused to swim if David couldn't swim. So then, Marilyn Keller, the soloist, sang "when I get to heaven will the Angels let me play/ because I am to little will they think I'm in the way..." . Wow.
We adjorned to mom's house, where there was way too much food and too many people. I am now exhausted and in need of alone time. I smell of about a dozen kinds of perfume from all the hugs I got. I did get to catch up with people I haven't seen in decades.
My part? My mom chose me to chauffeur her to and from the funeral home because she knew I would be calm and collected. I didn't disappoint.